When you are married, you become one (caveat: there should be at least one joint account where you share household expenses). And yet in far too many marriages, the husband controls the finances and the wife doesn’t have access to them...or has to beg, plead and cajole for her "allowance." Not cool!
It is demoralizing, he treats me like a possession especially since our son was born. It seems like everything has changed is it because he has become a father?