Do You Lie to Yourself About Money?

Financial Lies We Tell Ourselves
Financial Lies We Tell Ourselves

Money secrets within a family can have some disastrous consequences. We need to get past the old money stories that may be tinged with guilt, shame, anxiety,...


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Financial Lies We Tell Ourselves

We don’t mean to lie to ourselves, but we do it in an attempt to justify our spending habits and reduce feelings of guilt or anxiety, and eventually, we start to believe them.

But while these little lies may make us feel better in the short term, they can do some serious damage in the long run. These little lies we tell ourselves are all signs of financial denial and hold us back from true financial freedom.

We may have the best intentions when it comes to money – to save, to pay off debts – we know we need to do these things, but we’ll get around to them once we make more money. The truth? With this kind of mindset, you will never feel like you have enough money.

There will always be temptations and other things you want to spend your money on, no matter how much you make. If saving isn’t a priority when money is tight, it sure won’t be when you have more of it to spend. And what if you never were to make significantly more than you do now?

The lesson here is that now is as good a time as any to practice good financial habits and get a head start on saving and debt repayment. Even if you think you have no room in your budget to save, there are always ways to reallocate or reduce expenses, even if just temporarily. Factor savings and debt repayment into your budget and make sure to pay these first, not at the end of the month with whatever little is left.

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It is so hard and yes we all have every intention of getting out of debt but it is a pipe dream I tried paying extra to each bill but that didn't work I am going to try the method of saving toward a lump sum and see if it helps me stay on track!

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